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[–] [email protected] 49 points 1 day ago (32 children)

Good. I’ve seen stuff on that sub back when I used that site. It’s takes “I don’t want to have kids and society should stop making me feel bad about it” to the extreme of “nobody should have kids and people that do are child abusers”.

Sadly, they seem like a lot of broken people.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (22 children)

Not broken. Just mentally unwell. We have a national mental health crisis. Normalizing and increasing accessibility to treatment is vital.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I don’t know if it’s mentally unwell to not want children or to question the sanity of having children in this current society or other such situation like the poverty 2/3rds the world experiences.

As a parent, I feel guilt for my child to have to put up with this bs, especially in the workforce that I have dealt with in the 21 years I’ve been working. This shit sucks, and I hate living in this capitalist society we’ve built. There’s no logical way to escape it and just live freely.

And I’m poor in America. It’s even worse being poor outside of America. I honestly think it’s mentally unwell to keep having children in those circumstances.

And let’s add some context before I get chewed out by the smiling happy NT people:

I am autistic. My son is autistic. Life is very difficult and stressful every day because society was not built in any way that fits us. We have priorities and needs that run completely opposite of American society, its economy, its structure. The toiling for ten hours, coming home in the same traffic, raising kids until night, getting an hour to yourself, then bed to just wake up and do it all again for 40 years just feels like death.

And who wants to be forced to subjected to that?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Acting upon a perceived moral imperative to prevent others from procreation demonstrates a lack of interpersonal boundaries. Mentally fit people don’t kill themselves in fertility clinic explosions.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Well obviously that individual was mentally unwell. But the sentiment that one shouldn’t have a child by their own choice due to environmental circumstances by itself isn’t mentally unwell.

I don’t believe people should make that choice for others, but it shouldn’t be seem so abnormal if one does feel that way because, well, *gestures around wildly *

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think you were talking about people who believe in not having kids, and the other commenter was talking about people who want to blow themselves up to prevent others from having kids.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

You are correct 🫡

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Agreed. This place is a nightmare. Lol

It would be a whole lot better if more people took care of their mental health, and we didn’t elect psychopathic narcissists into the highest office in the US.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

One could argue forcing a child to be born into a dying world "demonstrates a lack of interpersonal boundaries."

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ah, you're also an ecofash doomer anti-natalist, that's why you're defending this guy.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 1 day ago

Not ecofash

Not a doomer

Not an antinatalist

Sorry

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Do you believe someone other than the parents should be empowered to make that determination?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I believe anyone who is capable of processing our current reality and the course we are heading down, who still chooses to create a life, is knowingly performing a selfish and immoral act.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

That’s fair, but I was asking if you believe it’s ethical to enforce that opinion on others.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

I think it's ethical to shame them for prioritizing their own desires over the life of their child.

I don't think it's ethical for laws to decide who can have children, but I also think letting anyone have children is not sustainable for our species. So ideally a solution to overpopulation is an educated population that makes their own individual responsible decisions.

If i were given total control I would probably force aspiring parents to adopt until there are no unwanted children left. Then we can think about making more

[–] [email protected] -5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Such deep moral philosophy over here.

Humans are mostly sentient biological machines at the end of the day, hard wired for an instinctual need to reproduce. Without children, everything falls apart. South Korea, Japan, China, Germany, US, etc etc all have declining birth rates. Fortunately for many Western countries, we've had immigrants to provide a buffer against the inverted age demographic pyramid crisis. South Korea, on the other hand, is looking at essentially a full economic collapse by 2060 because their birth rates have continually declined for so long and right now is at 0.76.

So tell me, when millions of old people are dying from neglect and no access to healthcare, food, etc. from lack of workers in 2070, will you be sitting there with such a mighty, holier than thou attitude? Probably, because you likely just have an edgy hot take that humans are garbage and deserve to go extinct. Such deep moral philosophy, you should teach in college.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

One doesn't have to think that all humans are trash and deserve to die in order to think that it's not cool to bring a whole ass human into a shitty situation so that the labor pool stays stable.

Jesus Christ

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Again, that's missing that point of what I'm saying. Without kids, humans go extinct. So yes, if you say, "stop having kids altogether," you're saying humans should go extinct. And my other point is highlighting how idiotic it is to call that the more moral position.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Why is the purpose of me being alive to wipe boomers' asses after they threw the world in the trash?

It's not my problem, if they want a sustainable system where the old are supported they had their whole lives to make it happen.

Alternatively they can fucking quit their positions of power so younger people can fix their mess.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Boomers will be long, long dead by 2070, so that statement is idiotic. You'll be the old boomer needing their ass wiped by then. And I'm not saying that children are only useful for that, I'm saying new generations of children keep civilization going altogether. But you don't like civilization and think it all sucks and want it all to die, so your views are simple and two-dimensional, lacking any compassion or empathy to those currently alive and sparing it all for those who don't even exist.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

If you think this current system will last long enough for me to reach retirement age, then you really are privileged.

You can't even type this shit in good faith, you have to ignore everything i said to assume these things about me.

Fuck off boomer looser

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

What did I ignore? Please enlighten me. I don't have to assume anything, because your argument boils down to exactly what I stated. Please tell me how it doesn't.

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